Your wife is a gift from God to straighten your life. The wife is a mirror to the husband. The husband chooses the wife and not vice versa. A husband who makes his wife number one in his home and life, will succeed in life. If you honour and cherish your wife, you will grow rich. Cherishing your wife isn't a 90% effort but a 100% effort. You have to give your wife honour and prestige. Whenever she wants something, honour her wishes. As a husband, you should be considerate of your wife's needs. Treat your wife as a queen and she will make you a king.
A husband must strive to have peace in his home. Charity begins at home. When you increase peace in your home, income will also increase. Peace is the best vessel there is for all kinds of blessings. Marriage is senseless without peace in the home. The wife of a critical husband is broken, depressed, pained and has no power. Peace at home is impossible when you criticize your wife. Negative comments will destroy your wife's happiness. Direct all your compassion first to your wife.
A woman can stay single and alone with no hassles. Men NEED women to be our backbones. A person who's too occupied in finding faults in others won't ever find fault in themselves. If you grab a woman from someone else, you will not be free. If you crooked, there are better crooks than you. When you get attracted to other women, other men will be attracted to your wife. Play your role as the husband and see improvement in your home. We owe it to ourselves to have peace and tranquility in our homes.
[Prophet Phillip Banda]